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Author's notes - Book 5     (2022)
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Patricia Ann Irelan
First and foremost, Pat was an artist—then a mother.  
Her first love was still lifes in oil.  Sometimes she would dabble in acrylics and painting critters 
(e.g. owls and rabbits because they sold) but most everything she made for the art shows was 
medium to small in size, eazy to carry and priced to sell...and she sold a lot!
Our mom was a bona fide Sensei at Quilling, and I haven't seen anything out there that comes 
close to the amazing work she used to do back in the days long past.
I can't list all the arts and crafts she mastered but, suffice it to say, it would make more sense 
to list the things she didn't do and...I can't think of any off hand?
Pat also worked as an Interior Decorator—where she encouraged me to follow in her footsteps 
because I had an good eye for it.  My argument back then was that being straight and a male 
would be a show stopper, but my mon thought otherwise.  Seeing Norm on Cheers a decade
later and, in retrospect, I wonder if I chose right?
She encouraged us to think outside the box—before there was an outide the box.  Dinner was 
always at the table and there was NEVER a moment of silence because it was there where we 
kids debated the issues of the day and NO subject was taboo!
My great aunt was a Mother Superior out of Leavenworth and she enjoyed coming to our home 
for dinner!  She loved our debates because we treated her as an equal!  Two notable discussions 
was over abortion and the PX doctrine of "ex cathedra" in re Papal infallibility.
Yea, those were good days!
In counterpoint, because we need to be balanced, she was also an insufferable pain in the ass, 
but that goes hand in hand with her perfectionist minset.  So, that said...
Pat was an amazing woman and we were all proud to have her as our mother!
 
NOTE: Below is Pat "dressed for work" and, ya gotta admit, this is wAy kEwL even by today's standard!